BREAK UP’S TO MAKE UP’S

When a guy breaks up with a girl and she begins to cry, it’s not because she’s crying for the guy, not because she’s upset. She’s crying because she’s wondering what she did wrong, as if she wasn’t good enough, she’s crying with what’s left of her heart. I’m so tired of guys having such a strong hold on girls these days, guys automatically think that just because that’s their girl, they have to do whatever they say. Like honestly you don’t think she is going to have guy friends? What about her friends before she met you? You don’t want you girlfriend to have a social life? Girls need to stop trying to do whatever they can to please their boyfriend so things can be happy all the time or take the blame for fights so things can be okay that night. If he doesn’t like you the way you are or what you have to say then leave him. Why stay and then hurt and be like omg he’s so mean to me and we fight all the time, but i love him he’s so nice to me blah blah blah. Get a man that will encourage you to do things and go out and have fun. I don’t buy that us fighting makes us stronger saying, yes argument’s will take place, but if you do that shit everytime you talk, or you cant go a couple of days without fighting, then there’s something wrong in the picture. Reevaluate your relationship and think about what really matters to you.